Strong girls can't fall for weak guys and if they do, they must let go of it. I was brought up in a home in which there's a strong woman, but a stronger man who always protect everyone around. Yeah, my mom is strong. However, my dad's charming strength makes her always feel safe and sound when he is beside her and that's feeling protected, loved and cared about. And that's all what I dream of, a man ! As for me, I'm like ×3 stronger than my mom and that's what my dad taught me. Accordingly, it's forbidden for me to love a weak guy. We love seaking marriage and a long journey ahead that to be completed everything must be matching. Actually, God has created males and females to complete eachother so that they only feel whole by the presence of their partner. So, how could a girl feel whole with a kid? It's known that guys are no more than big kids and the childish part in them is just .. cute. However, if he isn't a man when he must be so, if he can't make her feel safe even before being happy then he doesn't deserve her heart. I know that at some point he needs her to care about him as if she's his mother. When life turns black, he expects to find his heaven in her care about him and a cure to all his problems. He loves being cared about as well as her, but that doesn't mean acting like her lil kid all the time. Real guys don't feel satisfied except when they feel that she's safe by their side. They love making her feel that there's a man around. They know that part of their charm lies in that breathtaking protective strength. You know what? What's the definition of a gentleman? A gentleman is that guy who is a real man.. self-confident but not arrogant.. never lets her down.. never breaks a promise.. always there when she asks his help.. loves her care without being needy.. offers her his help without being sticky.. likes/loves her without being cheesy.. doesn't flirt because he knows that simple actions can attract her more.. appreciates her before loving her.. and knows well that his actions prove who he really is. That's my dream guy. A strong romantic man who belongs to the era of Mr. Darcy of pride and prejudice. A responsible man who knows that strength is making me feel safe not afraid, that needing me is his right not a defect, that loving me is a blessing not weakness and that he is never ever whole except when I'm by his side. A real man not a childish irresponsible kid.
