Let Them Talk..

Are you trying to explain to people the way you're? Do you care about their opinion? Are you ready to change to please them?
Well, I have found myself obligated to answer all these questions to know where I really am. We all exist, but we don't all live. Being alive depends on having prهىؤهحalive depends on having pro. Being alive depends on having pro where Ii rinciples, ethics and beliefs to stand for.

Actually, we'll never be able to please everybody around. There'll always be some people to judge you, hate you and rate you. However, some people will believe in you and appreciate your true value.
Nonetheless, it's really abnormal if you expect to be loved and appreciated by everyone. The  fact is that even God wasn't agreed on by all mankind. So, how could everybody agree on you, while you're not perfect and you'll never be?

Difference is our nature and some people even found reasons to doubt the presence of God. Consequently, you'll meet some people through your life who will have their own reasons to gossip about you and they might fight to prove their imaginary theories.        

I know that it's so irritating to know that some people somewhere are gossiping about you, but who cares? Their talks will never make difference. Meanwhile, they're the ones who waste a lot of time and effort talking about you.

Let them talk...
Let them insult you and talk about you in such a bad way.

It's a sort of psychological disease that attacks some weak-souled people. Yeah, that's a scientific fact.It's said that people gossip because of their jealousy.
While ethically, it's not even allowed to gossip because people almost assume things that have no existence in real life as if it seems more exciting to imagine stories out of nothing.
Consequently, gossiping is also prohibited religiously since religions mainly call for ethics. I don't know a specific text in the Bible or the Old Testament that prohibits the act of gossiping. Yet, the Holy Quran prohibited gossiping totally and pictured it to be as horrible as crimes. Allah (SWT) said in Holy Qur'an: "Oh you who believe! Avoid suspicion ( as much as possible) for suspicion in some cases is a sin and don't spy on each other behind their backs. Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? Nay, ye would abhor it. But fear Allah, For Allah is Oft-Returning, Most Merciful." [Al-Hujurat 49:12]
Moreover, the Holy Quran confirmed Islam's prohibition of gossiping by declaring its great punishment.
As Allah (SWT) said:
"Woe to every scandal-monger and backbiter." [Al-Humaza 104:1]
Undoubtedly, there's a common agreement on prohibiting gossiping ethically and humanly as the act of gossiping is evil since both the speaker and the listener are attacking a defenseless person.

Furthermore, if we review the history, we'll find that even prophets have been gossiped about. All over the years, leaders, celebrities and perhaps every single person on the globe has been gossiped about. It's never a sign of either success or failure, but what I'm sure from is that it isn't because you're a bad person.
People gossip because of their weakness. Maybe it's jealousy, hate or hypocrisy which is a result of the two previously mentioned characters.
Some people use it as revenge when you oppose their opinions, desires or whatever.

The point is that you mustn't be bothered by their hatred. That's a life fact! You're gonna be hated as well as being loved. You should accept that it's a fact to decrease your sufferings.

An important question must be asked here, are you still ready to change to please them?
Beware! Don't be fooled! Nothing is gonna please them.
If you're kind, they will take you for granted. If you're good to them, they'll call you stupid. And if you stay away, you'll be blamed. No matter how you try to please them, they will always find a way to criticize and blame you. Accordingly, follow God and never care about their opinions. Don't ever change your originality for anybody's sake.
We should only change to please God and be better ones.
Nevertheless, if you seek their pleasure or attention, you'll end up miserable.

Your success starts from your faith
Have faith in God for that he's gonna always be there even when you least deserve it.
Have faith in yourself, because self-confidence will increase your powers and put you in the place that you deserve.
Have faith in your dreams because great accomplishments start with a belief.
Never gossip about people as you will never know the whole story even if they tell you everything. There will always be some missing part that lies deep within their souls. 

And as Edward Wallis Hoch said, "There's so much good in the worst of us and so much bad in the best of us that it hardly behooves any of us to talk about the rest of us."

Thus, don't judge people as you weren't created for such a mission.
And, never forget that their gossip will neither minimize nor affect your real value. Always keep in mind that most haters are stuck in a prison of jealousy, hatred and blindness. They almost hate themselves even before hating you and you must feel sorry for them as they are sick incapable of love and appreciation.